Sunday, January 29, 2012

shall we?

 
 
it's fun in having rest.
rest physically & mentally
free from any form of works, any interference of thoughts

at one point, we may be tickle with questions why this & why that,why we have to do this & that
why we have to burden ourselves with this &  that
& at that time, we may shout for some rest.
a little while or the long one,
also,might envy others who just can do what they want to,
*rising hand, & blurt :chop! shall we have some rest?


& kita masa tue, kita juga lupa,
kenapa ye syurga tu berat?
kenapa ye syurga tue tak senang nak dapat?
 

Monday, January 16, 2012

Reason why still live

Let's stop for a while and start thinking why we are still alive.
Why some people, they are sooo evil but still, Allah do not take his live and just make him the dwellers of hell.Or why there's a person which is veryyy very veryyy kind, but still Allah lets him live in this transient world that full of filth instead of putting him in paradise? why ? Is it not that paradise is for those who did good and believe in Allah, and hell is for those who are tyrant, do injustice and bad things?
Of  coz the answer is simple, because Allah still gives time to those who act wrongfully to repent, and for those who did good to do more good. Also, the time of test has not ended yet (death). Then, we should never ever look down on people, whoever he maybe.. Who is amirul mukminin before his Islam? And who is him after embrace Islam? Who can expect the harshest person to Islam will turn out to be the strongest to protect it?
We human, know not the future, we strive only for ourselves. Islam doesn't need us, but we need Islam. Allah doesn't need Islam to be revived, but we need and all other human need. The writer believed that, revival of Islam is to safe the whole human being from kufur, it is not to have the muslim dominate the world, it's to create a better world. Subhannallah Allah doesn't need anything from us, if any of us believe or kufur nothing will add or subtract from Allah's power. Wallahua'lam.

Friday, December 30, 2011

The Complete Muslim Personality

It is well known and understood that Islam is a holistic system that impacts all areas of a person’s life. We hear this a lot but many times it is difficult to know exactly what it means and how it plays out in our lives. On this topic Imam Hasan al-Banna has a beautiful, terse, but dense statement. He mentions that the first thing that the Muslim should be concerned with is the reform of herself or himself. Then he says, “A Muslim should strive to attain a strong body, good character, cultured thought. He should be able to earn a living, have pure belief, and correct worship. He should be able to control his desires, be careful about his time, organized in his affairs, and beneficial to those around him. These comprise the duties of every Muslim as an individual.”1  These ten points provide a well-rounded approach to personal development according to the teachings of Islam.

Our health is a blessing and responsibility from Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He) and the level at which we take care of it affects all areas of our lives. If we are healthy then we think more clearly, we have more energy, and we are even stronger psychologically. However, at the same time, when we neglect our health we fall victim to all kinds of things like fatigue, psychological and spiritual struggles, and even cloudy thought. For these reasons it is foundational in the development of the well-rounded Muslim personality.

Out of this comes the first outward manifestation of the real quality of a person’s relationship with their Creator, character. The word used in Arabic, matīn, does not just mean good but also firm. It’s as if it implies that if a person has a really strong character then it does not only show in good times but also when things are difficult. This is a great measuring stick for us in our daily lives. When things are easy it is not difficult to maintain good conduct and treat people in the best way possible, but in the face of hardship, fatigue, frustration, disappointment, anger, and an array of other emotions it becomes much more difficult. The person who really has firm character can withstand these tests, but the one who is only putting on a show will always be known eventually.

After these two comes the third quality in the set of types of strengths that build the strong Muslim personality. The first strength was physical strength. The second was spiritual discipline, which is the foundation of good conduct. The third strength is intellectual and educational rigor: to be cultured in thought. This particular point is actually of the utmost importance and many times neglected by people who are perceived to be “religious.” The fact of the matter is that Islam is a system of life, informed by the teachings of the Divine, and embodied in the example of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ (peace be upon him). This example lived and existed in reality. The Muslim cannot cultivate a dynamic, powerful, meaningful, and impactful understanding of Islam without understanding reality. Islam is here to provide solutions to the problems that humans and mankind face. How can we understand that and actualize it without cultured thought? We cannot.

The fourth type of strength to be directed into the service of Islam is financial strength; hence, being able to earn a living. The reality of the matter is that it is very difficult to do anything when one is reliant upon others for their income or when their financial situation is so dire that they are occupied with essential issues like food, clothing, shelter, and health care. For these reasons it is important that the Muslim seeks to be able to take care of himself or herself so that they can be independent and capable in their service to Islam. Yes, some people will be poorer and others wealthier but all should seek some sort of financial stability.

After mentioning all of these points Imam al-Banna then moves on to say that the person should also have pure belief and correct worship. This is what directs all of those previously mentioned strengths. They are used in accordance with the guidelines and inspiration provided by pure belief and aided through constant and correct worship. From these sources the Muslim truly finds his or her direction and the kind of relationship with the Divine that is required in order to face the difficulties of service to the Truth. They are the well which quenches the spiritual thirst of the heart in its search for its natural inclination.

When all of these strengths are combined and held together with belief and worship the Muslim will find direction and mission in his or her life. This mission will require much from them and herein lies the secret of the last four characteristics. The first of these last four is that the Muslim is constant in fighting their base desires. In the struggle to worship Allah (swt) and live a righteous life there are endless difficulties and tests. Those tests are sometimes very clear and open but sometimes very subtle. They can be tests of sincerity, seeking praise, wanting appreciation from people, argumentation, and many others. These tests cannot be overcome except through a never-ending process of fighting one’s base desires.

The next of these characteristics are to be strict about one’s time and organized in one’s affairs. Time is life itself and the person that kills time only kills their self. This is why Hasan al-Baṣrī said, “O Son of Adam! You are nothing but a compilation of breaths and with each breath that passes, a piece of you is gone.” The well-rounded Muslim will also find that their responsibilities will always outweigh the amount of time that they have to fulfill them. For this reason the Muslim is always strict with their time and organized in their affairs so that they can reap the most benefit from this life before meeting their Lord in the next life.

The last characteristic is to be beneficial to others. This should be read twice. Everything that came before is lost if we are harmful to those around us. The scholars of Islam have said that the core objective of Islam is to acquire benefit. Everything that we do is in the service of Allah (swt) and all that He requires from us is only of pure benefit to us and all of mankind. Therefore, we should use this as a way to check ourselves and assess our impact on those around us, while seeking to understand not only through our own vision but through the teachings of the Divine.

May Allah (swt) help us to embody these characteristics and bless us with being able to manifest Islam in all of its wonderful beauty.


  1. The Message of the Teachings by Hasan al-Banna [↩]
By: jamal diwan december 16, 2011.
http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/character/the-complete-muslim-personality/

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Source Of Motivation


 What are your source of motivation that keep you studying and staying all night? That act like a charger when you are down and nearly give up? If you dont have one, you better find it before difficulties as a medical student start to overwhelmed u. However, whatever our source of motivation is, we have to remember that we  are here on earth for a test set up by Allah:                                                  
   "do people think that they will be left alone because they say "we believe" and will not be tested?"               al-ankabut:2.                                   

   And we must also bear in mind that  :            
   "and whosoever strives, he strives only for himself. Verily, Allah stands not in need of any of the 'Alamin (mankind, jinn, and all that exist ) " al-ankabut :6

Whatsoever happen in this world is a test for us, those who grab the opportunity that Allah presented to them is for the profit of themself.  Allah dont need anything from us, its us that always in need of Him. The concept of test is so important in islam that the understanding of this concept make a believe stronger in facing any predicament.     

  Abu Suhayb ibn Sinaan narrated that the Prophet said: “How amazing is the case of the believer; there is good for him in everything, and this characteristic is exclusively for him alone. If he experiences something pleasant, he is thankful, and that is good for him; and if he comes across some diversity, he is patient, and that is good for him.” [Muslim]  




“If you are thankful I will add more (favors) unto you; but if you show ingratitude truly My punishment is terrible indeed.” [Surat Ibrahim 14:7]


Monday, November 7, 2011

accept YOURSELF!


Assalamualaikum and hai..:)


First of all, hows ur minitest guys? are you satisfied with what you got? or you dont satisfy with your result and blame yourself for not being able to get what you aim for? whatever it is, life must go on and we still have another big exam to think of. and for that reason, learn from our mistakes. never let banana fruit two times. ;)


Back to the main point Can you see the capital letters YOURSELF? Who is YOURSELF? Is YOURSELF a reader who is reading my piece of typing right now? yes! you know YOUrself. right?.. BTW, have you asked yourself whether you’re satisfied being YOU? I mean, you just love the way YOU are and not trying to please others who want you to be NOT YOU.. You got me right? Please say you do understand me…*why am I being so desperate? -.-’*

 
Well, if you live your life just to please others.. it means you don’t deserve your life. I didn’t say it is not right to please others but in this context, do it moderately!

There are a lot of situations showing that how ungrateful we are and how we tend not to accept who we are..



Let’s scroll down…………..



SITUATION 1
I think I just need to lose some weight, gain some weight, pass the exam (at least distinction ok), read more books (Atlas of Human Anatomy, medical physiology, recipe etc), become a good son, daughter, friend, student…. And then I will like myself!





SITUATION 2
I only need to look better, feel better, be better and then I will be a worthwhile person.
  


SITUATION 3
I sleep early and I also wake up early,, but my friends always say I’m a hardworking girl who tends to non-stop study..(What the heck if you said I’m a severe hardworking girl while you stayed up until midnight just to study? Our study hours still the same k!) =.=’. So, I think I just need to stop studying right now and start practicing to become a sleeping beauty…and then my friends will like me.
 
 

SITUATION 4
I love pink damn much but my bff doesn’t like pink cuz she thinks I’m a childish person who loves to hold a Barbie doll when sleeping -__-’ So, I think, I just need to change my fav color from pink to grey because she likes to watch Grey’s anatomy…and then, she will like me.
 
 

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If you are or tend to be in these situations…STOP!


Please refrain yourself from being trapped into any situation like this! If you allow yourself to think like this you will never, ever accept yourself because you will always be waiting for some perfect time which will never arrive.

Hence, all you have to do is just simply accept YOURSELF. You are UNIQUE, AMAZING and FABULOUS just the way you are.. You should hear your own heart’s word (kata hati) or your intuition. You, yourself know better. But, it doesn’t mean you have to reject other’s opinions blatantly. Take it as a good advice if their words benefit you. Let say, if your friend says you have a bad body odor, will you still sticking up to your habit not taking a bath? Of course not, right?

In fact, God has created man in the best form. But somehow, we tend not to appreciate ourselves. Please guys, be grateful for who you are and for what you have. Love your family, friends and dreams. Try to LOVE everything that you have, DON’T try to have everything that you love!

Thus, in order to accept yourself.. Look in a mirror and say: “ mirror..mirror on the wall, who is the most beautiful girl/ handsome boy in al-tabari?” You should say this: ‘ I love You’ ..and start singing BRUNO MARS SONG- JUST THE WAY YOU ARE..YOU here doesn’t mean a guy/girl you love, who you put his/her picture on your mirror ok! YOU= yourself lorh.. Try to say this sacred word (I love you) again and again until you fall in love with yourself and you can accept yourself…Praise to Allah!

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

knowledge is never a waste

Have u ever experienced this?

Talking to urselves alone & said "Why I have to study this & that?"

Or maybe this?

After PBL session 1 & tasks were divided among group members. Then suddenly u said, "Poor me! I've to do the toughest one, the longest one & the most complicated one."

Ever? Even once? Frankly speak, I always did!

Till I found this nice quote. I learned to accept every tasks as student whole-heartedly. So, I'm just gonna share this with everyone who was caught in the same problem with me! Hopefully it will work on u all too peeps!


Stay calm & motivated frens! Try to enjoy every steps as medical students :)